It was not a quite long chat, but a deep one. Summing all of experiences and observations, then suddenly this line of text popped out.
To care, to share, are not easy things to do.
To some people, sharing and caring are natural things to do to their precious one, but to some others, they don’t know how to do that, or even how to start them.
It takes efforts and trade offs to make them work, which in most times need a lot of energy, thought and patient.
But in the end, what counts are the sincerity and honesty in each act.
array of trashes [...] 
somehow it sounds rational, especially that part saying “but to some others, they don’t know how to do that, or even how to start them.” I often experience that state *curcol*
and there is a saying: “practice makes perfect” 😀